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k_squared_mods ([personal profile] k_squared_mods) wrote in [community profile] love_hmd_meme2012-05-15 09:42 am
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08. HMD Meme

☑ HOW'S MY DRIVING MEME


All of us have those moments where we are uncertain about our characterization. Sometimes feedback is the best medicine! So, step on up and post your roleplay accounts and the games you have them in. Let others come by and tell you how you're doing and let others know what you think! Give legitimate reasons and not just "I love you!" Save that for our monthly love memes. 


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(Anonymous) 2012-05-15 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
This is just a drive by comment but I've seen your Sansa a lot on memes and you frequently mark "f/f" do you play her that way in game too? From what I understand of the series It surprises me.

[personal profile] ladysarmour 2012-05-16 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
She's not involved in any relationships in-game, and it would take a lot of development to push her towards one. Canonically she can be interpreted to have a crush on the Hound, and she lives in a society where women, especially women of Sansa's social class, are raised expecting to be heterosexual because they exist only for breeding.

Why is it a surprise? Granted the books have no lesbian relationships as far as I'm aware, but there's been a handful of f/f sex scenes or references to thereof. But there is a canon gay relationship (Renly/Loras), as well as references to a number of non-hetero characters (Xaro comes to mind).

But mostly it comes down to I just prefer Sansa in same-sex relationships, I think she reads as queer, and I'm more interested in exploring that than I am with yet another heterosexual pairing, especially in a series such as ASOIAF where the patriarchy is so openly and violently oppressive of women.

Would it ever happen in a game with her? Probably not. She's thirteen, severely mentally and emotionally traumatized, a victim of sexual abuse, and in dire need of simple friendship.