Respectfully, you really aren't balancing as well as you think you are. When you find yourself dreading getting tag-backs and boomerangs or whatever and you constantly have an enormous backlog of tags, and huge difficulty doing cross-canon CR, then you have too much on your plate. You're fun to play with, but you are in too many games. RP is more rewarding when you have the energy to do more than the bare minimum, trust me on that one.